Saturday, April 14, 2007

How does one know that they have met The One? And to find out there's someone who is better than 'The One'? And why people seek happiness in others?

An issue to ponder. Hmmm...I have always thought about this back then when I was in secondary school and even now. It is a heavy issue I must day but hey when one have too much time on her hands, they think to ponder a lot ayte. These past few days I can't help but think why do people have infidelity or flings or whatever you call it these days. I have seen for myself people having affairs. At first I thought seriously you got to be joking, why do people have affairs when they are already married with whom they thought was The One? So does that boils down to the fact that The One is actually not the one because apparently you met someone better that The One. Call me naive or whatnots but I still think this issue is never going to be resolved.

Why?

Because you will, of course for the love of god will, meet someone better than you previous one, better than your current one and the list goes on. So tell me again how do you tell which is the one that is going to spend the rest of your life with, grow old with you and to really understand you well enough your strengths, weaknesses and not thinking of divorcing you after like what 40 yrs of marriage. So I assumed that's the reason why people do have affairs but hey I maybe wrong, its just one person opinion.

I thought he was the one but I was foolish and too naive I guess. It must be the age, too young mah, where got think of all these rite. But I thought wrong. Now, after years down the road, he figured "Oh god I think I made the wrong decision and if only I could turn back the time, I won't do what I did." Basically his life is messed up, twisted, scary and damaged. So what did I replied, "Too bad, its your loss not mine. I happy-contented but not happy-ecstatic with my life but yah not as twisted, scary and damaged as yours." I really hoped he change for the better but then again that's what he said last year and all the years before. Sukahati kau lah nak, kau dah besar. Dah berbuih mulut aku nasihat, masuk telinga kiri keluar telinga kanan. Asalkan kau jangan babitkan aku sudah cukup. That's all I'm ever asking.

On a lighter note, I managed to catch Mukhsin after so much pestering my friends but I ended up watching it with my sis. I so like the film, very the sepet-like, sweet, nice, romantic, innocent puppy-love and bittersweet. I think I'm Yasmin Ahmad no. 1 fan man. Contrary to popular beliefs about love and romantic films, this film is nothing like that. I would give 8/10 yah I know its bias but hey I love her films, need I say more. Gubra was definitely darker with a tinge of the issue I have been talking about, infidelity. The whole trilogy has deep meanings in life and one has to read between the lines to analyse the film. It is interesting to know and put yourself in her shoes and thinks what she thinks. People collect Star Wars and Lord of the Rings trilogy, I collect Sepet trilogy. Wacthing her films made you realise and see things differently and knowing that things happen for a reason and its always a blessings in disguise and that love is pure and it should stay that way. Btw I cried in this film, Sepet and Gubra like in all the other films like Children of Heaven, Colour of Paradise and Baran. Nice films to watch. It just touches the heart or let's put it this way, my heart. I think I was too touched I must say watching the film that I fell sick the next day. Damn. So very the cannot wait for the dvd, yay the complete trilogy.

http://sg.movies.yahoo.com/Mukhsin/movie/14079/
http://www.focusfilms.cc/film/mukhsin.htm

listening to kenangan terindah by samsons

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